tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47049423590214593792024-03-13T04:27:57.557-07:00Peanut Butter & SunshineSticky Fingers, Messy Faces, and a Whole Lot of Joy!Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-31253684874453470742015-03-26T09:14:00.001-07:002015-03-28T22:01:43.194-07:00Mama Your Job is SO Worth ItAccountant. Actor. Architect. Bookkeeper. Car Mechanic. Chef. Chemist. Cleaning lady. Coach. Dentist. Doctor. Engineer. Farmer. Firefighter. Judge. Lawyer. Librarian. Mathematician. Musician. Nurse. Pharmacist. Pilot. Restaurant Manager. Secretary. Soldier. Teacher. Therapist. Veterinarian. Writer. Zoo Keeper. <br />
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The little girl with big green eyes looks up at her daddy with a huge smile on her face. "I want to be a gymnast when I grow up. And when I'm too old to be a gymnast, a ballerina."<br />
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<i>Laundry piles up. Into the hamper. Into the washer. Into the dryer. Into the closet. Repeat.</i><br />
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"Do just daddies work? Do mommies work too?"<br />
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<i>Food to buy. Food to wash. Food to prep. Food to cook. Food to eat. Repeat. </i><br />
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"Do just some mommies go to work?"<br />
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<i>Dishes pile up. Dishes to rinse. Dishes to load. Dishes to unload. Repeat. </i><br />
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"Does everyone have a job?"<br />
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<i>Toilets to scrub. Sinks to scrub. Bathtubs to scrub. Mirrors to wipe down. Bathrooms to use. Repeat.</i><br />
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"Do kids have jobs too?"<br />
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<i>Toys to get out. Toys to play with. Toys to put away. Repeat. </i><br />
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"Our mommy gets to just stay home."<br />
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<i>Floors to get crumbs on. Floors to vacuum. Floors to mop. Floors to sweep. Repeat. </i><br />
<i><br /></i>Handsome daddy answers the questions, "Yes. Daddies work, but mommies work too. Some daddies go to work, some stay home and work. Some mommies go to work, some stay home and work. Everybody has a job. Even kids have jobs. Some kids go to school and that's their job. Some kids just need to be kids, so being a kid and playing is their job." <br />
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"But our mommy just stays home." <br />
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<i>Babies to feed. Babies to burp. Babies to change. Babies to clean. Babies to rock. Babies to hold. Babies to snuggle. Repeat. </i><br />
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Gracious husband responds, "Yes. Our mommy does get to stay home. She does a lot of things at home. She makes sure we have clean clothes. She helps get groceries so that we have good things to eat. She washes dishes so we have clean plates to eat our food on. She cleans the dirty bathrooms that we use all the time. She tries to keep the floors clean. It's a big job."<br />
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I look at him with a thank-you smile. He knows. He knows that some days are just plain hard. Sometimes I don't feel like I contribute enough. He knows that sometimes my job is viewed only as checking the "other" box in the list of jobs. He knows that I get tired. He knows that without me at home, our house might not get as messy--because our house might not be as used. He knows that I COULD go out and work and we COULD send our girls to daycare. We wouldn't be home to get things messy. The toilets would be cleaner <i>because they wouldn't be used as much</i>. Our toys wouldn't get everywhere <i>because they wouldn't be played with as much</i>. The floors wouldn't get <i>as many</i> crumbs on them. He knows. <br />
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"Yes, our mommy gets to stay home. <i>She</i> gets to play with you. <i>She </i>gets to teach you. <i>She</i> gets to help you bandage your owies. <i>She</i> gets to snuggle you. <i>She</i> gets to read to you. <i> She </i>gets to take you to the zoo. <i>She </i>gets to play outside with you. <i>She gets to watch you grow.</i><br />
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The green-eyed girl lets that sink in. We eat lunch. We play. At dinner, the beautiful little girl looks thoughtful. "I've changed my mind. I want to be a mommy when I grow up."*<br />
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<br />Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-70097771124366797502015-03-23T16:13:00.004-07:002015-03-26T12:58:45.821-07:00Days of DiscordDiscord /ˈdiskôrd/. Disagreement between people. In music, lack of harmony between notes. <br />
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Well, a couple of weeks ago there was a major lack of harmony in our house between me and my girls, my girls and me, and my girls with each other. I'm sure that a fly in the room would have seen many ugly faces exchanged between the three of us. Negative tones were flying. Stomping feet. Pushing. Arguing. Disregard for each other's well being. Disagreements. Disrespect. Displeasure to the Nth degree. Where did this stem from? What. Happened. Here? <br />
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It came from another "dis". <span style="font-size: large;">DISOBEDIENCE. </span>I want to say that it was the girls' disobedience. It was. <span style="font-size: x-small;">But it was also my own. </span>Did you catch that? Yes. I am admitting it; it <i>was</i> my OWN disobedience. <br />
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It started out as any other day. I woke up with Natalie and fed her. Then our "normal" day ended; Kara woke up crying. When I went and asked her what was wrong, trying to hug and comfort her, she glared at me, pushed me away, and said, "No." Talk about waking up on the wrong side of the bed. We had breakfast and that went pretty well. Then started the, "This is my Christmas present. I'm going to play with it. This is YOUR Christmas present and I'm going to play with it, <i>too</i>," stunt pulled by Kaylee. I tried to deal with things peaceably for a while... but by 9:00 I hit my limit. I was no longer going to try. I couldn't do it anymore. I had it. I was done. (Did you notice that <i>I</i> couldn't <i>do it</i> anymore?) Here enters the, "I've had it, sit in time-out" fits from mom. Oh. No. That didn't work. "Ok, time-out isn't working. Go sit in the bathroom and wait to have a talk from mom." Yeah. That's setting the tone real well, Mama. Good job. <i>Now, I'm getting the job done.</i> <span style="font-size: x-small;">Aren't I?</span> <br />
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The rest of the day was filled with blatant disobedience from my girls to me and Zach. "Please stay up at the table," was followed by a mischievous look while climbing down from the table. "Don't touch the light," was followed by a pitter-patter run towards the light to touch it (and turn it off seeing as it was a touch lamp). Wow. This doesn't even do the day justice. It was rough.<br />
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During a relatively good and easy bedtime (Thank Jesus!), I was able to reflect on the hard day with the girls. We talked about our bad attitudes and how we treated each other with ugly hearts. We didn't love each other like Jesus loves. This is the point where I was finally willing to start looking at MY ugliness in it. I still wasn't fully willing. Then, as I lay in bed, I thought back through the day again. Oops. There it was. Right in front of me. My ugly, ugly sin. Through all my raised eyebrows and "you don't want to mess with this mom" looks towards the girls, I saw it. Through my, "That didn't work, but <i>this</i> will certainly LEARN YOU GOOD" words of "wisdom" to my girls that I'm supposed to be training up in righteousness, I saw it. My own disobedience. They came in small fleeting moments that could have made the BIGGEST difference throughout the day. <br />
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Ephesians 6:4 kept coming into mind throughout the day. "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." My response was to ignore. My response was to deflect. It wasn't MY fault that the girls were disobeying. They are sinners on their own. (Which they are, but that aside...) I wanted to see through my sin. My tone, my action, my looks, my words of "Why can't you <i>do better</i>... JUST LEARN ALREADY!" were definitely provoking my girls. My discipline tactics, although not completely wrong, were not RIGHT either. I KNEW this and I kept doing things my way anyway. I could figure this out. I was disobeying.<br />
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"Love one another, for love comes from God (1 John 4:7a)" was not what I taught my girls that day. "We love because He first loved us (1 John 4:19)" wasn't either. This is another point of me blatantly disobeying God again. Kaylee has little handouts from Sunday school with memory verses. She brought both of these verses up to me at two separate times during the day--both following ugly moments of discord in our home--and asked me to read them. I read them. I chose not to pay attention to them. <br />
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I remembered the past Sunday's sermon given by Mark Lauterbach. We often get stuck in this "learn it, do it" cycle. We just want our kids to learn how to be better and then actually be better. We think we should be able to learn it and do it better. The thing is, we forget Who actually works. WE can't do it on our own. By the Grace of God extended to us, we can do it THROUGH CHRIST. We fail in our own strength. We think that if we can just keep all these rules, we'll be better. The thing is, this is actually bondage because WE <i>can't</i> keep all the rules. We are only truly free when we live in Christ. Not rules. I remembered Pastor's words of truth, but didn't act on them. Disobedience.<br />
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God allowed me to remember these specific moments from throughout the day to see my sin of disobedience. It's ugly. It's not fun. It's a necessary part of sanctification. The recognition and reflection of my sin will only make my faith in Him stronger. Hopefully, it will remind me to <i>listen</i> to His reminders and obey the next time my house falls into discord. Because of Christ in me, the Fruit of the Spirit can be evidenced. Because of Christ, the desires of the flesh can be put to death. I realize that I will fail and discord will once again be in my house. I cannot stop my girls from sinning. I will continue to sin. The next time my house falls to discord, the first place I must go is to the foot of the cross, for on my own I can do no good. I must pray that Christ will work in me and through me. I must pray that Christ will dwell in the hearts of my girls, for they are sinners, too, unable to do good out of their own accord.<br />
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<br />Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-6692554086379432092015-03-19T09:47:00.002-07:002015-03-26T12:58:38.316-07:00Prayer for My SonWe don't have any boys. Only God knows if we'll have a biological son added to our family. But if I don't have any sons, why am I praying for them? We pray each day for our daughters by name. We pray that the Lord will guide each one in that path that He has for them. My husband and I hope and trust that one day each of our girls will be able to experience the wonderful gift of marriage with a young man of God. Those young men will become our sons. Our parents prayed for our spouses and their families from the beginning. We are doing the same.<br />
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To my son who I have yet to meet,<br />
I pray that the Lord will guide your feet;<br />
that you will love Him who died for your Sin,<br />
and trust in the Spirit for guidance within.<br />
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I pray that your parents show you the way<br />
To grow in Grace from day to day.<br />
I hope that they live and speak Gospel Truth<br />
from the day you are born throughout all your youth.<br />
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May you grow in courage to stand for what's right.<br />
May your love for God stay strong each day and night.<br />
May you have integrity and may you be honest.<br />
May you go through life giving only your best.<br />
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I pray that you live out Micah 6:8,<br />
Each--justice, mercy, humility--is a good trait;<br />
That God's Goodness is reflected to those around you,<br />
And that your motives will be pure and true.<br />
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I pray that you have great self-discipline,<br />
But that, realizing your nature, you know that you'll sin,<br />
You'll turn to your Savior for forgiveness and grace,<br />
And that you'll always again search for His face.<br />
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To the young man who has won my daughter's heart,<br />
I pray that your love for her will never depart.<br />
Know that when the two of you become one,<br />
You'll join our family and become our son. <br />
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<br />Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-7882524732860214642015-03-05T14:28:00.001-08:002015-03-05T14:28:16.775-08:00Embrace the ScarsScars. We all have them. I used to look down at my scars and wish that they would go away. I have a couple of scars on my bottom lip from where my teeth went through. One was from jumping on a couch and landing into a coffee table at a friends house when I was 4. The other time my teeth went through my lip was when I caught a pop-fly in softball--only I caught it with my mouth. I have scars on my knees from sliding into home plate (on occasion--I really wasn't all that great at softball). I have a perfectly round scar on my right knee from paintballing in high school as a result of close-quarter shooting at a high velocity. I have a few stretch marks and other imperfections that I gained when I was pregnant with Kaylee. I have a scar on the outside of my left wrist.<br />
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On that summer's night in August, we had just come out of the hospital from visiting my Mother-in-law, who had undergone surgery. The layout of this hospital has a large wash (a riverbed that has dried up and occasionally fills up during a monsoon) running between the building and the parking garage. A bridge connects the two. Although this "riverbed" isn't all that wide, the drop from the top of the bridge down is quite a drop. The bridge has a railing, but it isn't solid. I was carrying my sweet little Kara and we were crossing on the sidewalk. My flip-flop caught on the sidewalk and it was one of those slow-motion moments--you know what's going to happen, but can do nothing about it. I took 3 or 4 giant steps. I tried with each step to catch my balance, but I couldn't and still keep a tight hold of my sweet girl. I knew I was going down. I turned my body so that I would fall towards the road as there were no cars coming. Zach was in front of me and could hear me falling but didn't know which way. He turned to make sure I wasn't falling towards the side of the bridge with the huge drop. I landed hard, but didn't break any bones. Kara hit her head a bit, but not too hard. It scared us more than hurt us. </div>
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I see that scar and I realize that things could have gone so much worse. I was about 3 months pregnant and I landed on my 1 1/2-year-old. I could have broken my wrist. Something could have happened to the baby. Kara's head injury could have been serious. I kept a good hold on her, but what if I hadn't? What if I had gone toward the edge of the bridge instead of the road? I could keep thinking what-if after what-if. But this is what was. God protected us. I see that scar and I am reminded that my mother-in-law came through a successful surgery. I see the scar and I see God's protection around my family that night. Things could have ended so much differently than they did. I'm thankful that all that happened was that I got a scar on my wrist. It is a reminder of God's sovereignty and His graciousness even in the "small" moments of life. </div>
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I look at the scar on my knee and I think of the guy who shot that paintball at me. He is now serving in the Marines. When I see that scar, I pray for him and his wife. </div>
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I see the softball scars and I thank God that I have the ability to be physically active--even if I'm not the most coordinated at sports. I think of all the girls on all my teams, and even though I don't remember all of their names, I pray for them. </div>
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I pray for the friend whose coffee table I biffed on. We have been separated by many years and I haven't had any contact with her since early early elementary school. I still think about her and have started praying for her when I see the scars under my bottom lip. </div>
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All of these scars have background stories. They are all a part of my story and they are reminders of a few moments in my life of what God has done and how He works. </div>
Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-43026273278293719472015-02-26T14:23:00.000-08:002015-03-03T09:04:25.986-08:00As Long As She's HealthyThis is a post that piggybacks on my last post <a href="http://peanutbutterandsunshine.blogspot.com/2015/02/trying-for-boy.html" target="_blank">Trying for a Boy?</a> That post was already getting long, and with these being 2 separate thoughts--although related--I decided to write them as 2 separate posts.<br />
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As I was shopping one day for a few odds and ends, a dear old lady, whose intentions were only good {really--she was sweet as can be}, came up and started a conversation. It's a familiar one. I was about 8 months pregnant and had both my girls with me.<br />
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"Your girls are beautiful. Oh, I see you're having another one? Now, what are we hoping for, dear? I bet daddy wants a boy." <br />
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Kaylee was quick to reply, "Nope, God is giving us another girl. Her name is Natalie. This is my sister Kara and I'm Kaylee. This is my mom, Cassie." <br />
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The lady smiled as she replied. "Oh, I bet Dad wishes he had a boy." {Again, I addressed why this statement bothers me in my last post.}<br />
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I tried to sound gracious as I responded to her, "Actually, we're all very excited to meet this little one and see who God has chosen to give us." <br />
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This little old lady, still with super sweet intentions said, "I love your perspective. I'm sure you will love whoever you have, as long as she's healthy."<br />
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As long as she's healthy. This statement hit me so much differently than it normally would have.<br />
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People really can say these things with good intentions. And I am sure I have said so many of these same things before. But the more I live life as a mom, the more I am stunned by these types of conversations. The thoughts of our society astound me. The idea that I would love a boy-child more than a girl-child is hard to imagine as a mom. The idea that I will only love my child as long as she's healthy, sickens me. It places a condition on the child. I will love you IF. If you are healthy... So, don't you even THINK about being born with a disease that is out of your control. God, You <i>wouldn't</i> give ME a <i>sick</i> baby.<br />
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Again, I realize that, YES, it is easier to have healthy children. Yes, we don't WISH for <i>anyone</i> to be sick, especially not our child. We pray for healthy babies. We desire healthy babies. But, in light of many things in the news recently, such as <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Lifestyle/dad-refuses-give-newborn-son-syndrome/story?id=28756025" target="_blank">this story about a Dad refusing to give up his son with Down Syndrome</a>, I am realizing that things like this shouldn't be said. It's sad that these statements are actually becoming reality. People actually ARE rejecting their children because of a health condition that is outside of their control. I am so thankful that this dad didn't reject his son because of his health condition. His value is still as great as my value and yours. He is created in the image of God, Down Syndrome and all. <br />
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I have so many friends whose children have illnesses and special needs that are hard to diagnose or define. Even if they are definable, they are difficult to manage and full of unknowns. These parents haven't stopped loving their children. Instead, I see hearts who grieve for their child over his or her illness--not because of the inconvenience that it causes them {and by all means, illness is not easy to deal with}--because they love their child so incredibly much that it causes them pain to see them in such a state. They desire healthy bodies because they wish their child didn't suffer. But at the same time, they are willing to go through this hard path because they couldn't imagine doing life without that child no matter the cost. They are willing to go through this hard time in life because it allows God to teach them things that they would otherwise miss.<br />
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In these parents, I see the love of God. I am <i><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans+3%3A23&version=ESV" target="_blank">sick with sin</a>, </i>yet God the Father loves me. He loves me and He sent His Son to die for me so that one day I can receive <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Phil+3%3A+17-21&version=ESV" target="_blank">a body restored</a>. Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-32736459912476172842015-02-25T14:32:00.001-08:002015-02-25T14:32:26.029-08:00Trying for a boy? As I sat awake holding my little 2-week-old joy throughout the night a couple nights ago, I couldn't help but stare down at her through the soft light that so gently caught all her beautifully perfect little features. I can't imagine holding anyone different than who I have. I experienced the same kind of overwhelmingly powerful rush of unconditional love with both of my other girls. I simply cannot imagine my family any other way! As I was sitting there staring at her, I started recalling the numerous times this pregnancy that I was asked, "So, what are you hoping for, dear?" or something along those lines.<br />
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Here are some of the actual things that were said to me while I was pregnant this 3rd time:<br />
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"What are you having?... Oh a girl?... Are you going to try for the boy or just give up and realize you're a girl family?" <br />
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"Oh you're having a girl? We actually got our boy for the second one so we could stop trying at that point. Haha! What are <i>you</i> going to do?"<br />
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"Oh, I bet your husband is really disappointed. He still isn't getting his boy." <br />
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Now, I fully realize that the intention behind most, if not all, of these statements was <i>not</i> to offend. They were <i>not </i>to make claims that only families with boys and girls are acceptable families. They were <i>not</i> trying to say that boys are better than girls. They were simply people acknowledging that I was pregnant with #3, and already having 2 beautiful girls, they were curious about who would be joining us. They were simply making small talk. <br />
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I tried to graciously respond to all of these statements (of which I got SO many more than the few mentioned above). I would simply respond, "We're excited to meet who God is giving us." <br />
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Zach and I prepared our girls with this undeniable truth before we even found out the gender: we are not in control of who this baby is created to be. God is. He is the author of life. However, the question is always asked (And I ask it too!), "What are you hoping for?" or "What do you think you're having?" The girls both responded that they thought it would be a girl. So in an attempt to prepare them to love a brother if that's what God gave us, we simply explained to them that we don't get to decide the gender. God does. If it was a boy, He wanted to give them a special gift of a little brother. If it was a girl, He thought they needed a little sister. We aren't in control. He is. We aren't the creators of life. He is. They caught on to that much stronger than I thought, so Kaylee would often speak up before I would and she would reply to those strangers in the store, "We don't get to choose and we'll just have to wait and see." Sometimes she'd quietly throw in, "But I want a sister." Once we KNEW it was a girl, she'd exclaim,"God chose a sister for us! Isn't that exciting?" I loved hearing her say that. I love that she knows that Natalie is a gift to our family <i>from God</i>. <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWPohYWufQtpGm-DjwzZmz2pIMkKZN7lKqyhmA-3vv9JVBqW07YYg7H-sl4-_RPSISQzfVeKdsAntGvj0sPugc6nHocoazbmqEIx_qDObpkcZlv2OFrmHmQUWRY8jEksYiL-gumoMZeOA/s1600/IMG_7262.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWPohYWufQtpGm-DjwzZmz2pIMkKZN7lKqyhmA-3vv9JVBqW07YYg7H-sl4-_RPSISQzfVeKdsAntGvj0sPugc6nHocoazbmqEIx_qDObpkcZlv2OFrmHmQUWRY8jEksYiL-gumoMZeOA/s1600/IMG_7262.JPG" height="213" width="320" /></a>To those who said that my husband would be disappointed, I always brought up how much he loved his 2 girls, so I was sure it wouldn't be any different this time around. The last thing I wanted was for my 2 beautiful, sweet, innocent girls to think that they were anything less than what daddy was REALLY excited about. He <i>is</i> so excited about all of his girls. Sure, it maybe took some getting used to. He wasn't really very keen on wearing princess crowns and fake pearl necklaces until he had his girls. Lip gloss and nail polish weren't things that he thought to spend his money on. But he still has his fun of building forts and showing off his soccer footwork, with the hope that his kids will fall in love with soccer. He gets to still pass his appreciation of Star Wars on to the next generation. And I can't imagine that he would want anything different than a daughter who aspires to be a gymnast and then a ballerina when she's too old to be a gymnast. Or our middle little who wants to be a gymnast and a football player. We love our girls.<br />
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Are we done having kids? Maybe. Maybe not. Are we trying for a boy? No. Would we love a boy? Yes! Would we love another girl? Yes! We will love whoever ends up making up our family--all given to us by God.<br />
<br />Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-41375586660909773942015-02-21T21:19:00.005-08:002015-02-22T06:35:31.974-08:00Natalie: The Littlest LittleToday we celebrated 2 weeks of life for a precious girl, Natalie! Here's a look at the last couple of weeks:<br />
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BIRTH STORY (Trying to keep it PG, but be forewarned)<br />
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The last few days last week, Natalie seemed so comfy cozy inside me. I wasn't anticipating anything happening for another week or so. Friday night, we went to bed. I had mild back pain, which was nothing new, but nothing else. I had dreams throughout the night of power walking, squatting, and getting advice from people about how to get labor started, such as eating pineapple. Right about 3 a.m. I woke up to go to the bathroom--again, nothing out of the ordinary. But then I thought, "Hey, I think that might be a REAL contraction. I'll probably get a few and they'll go away like they did a few days ago." I went back to bed and as I was lying there, I felt another one. And another. I started timing them. 6-10 minutes apart and getting closer. I woke Zach up a little after 3:30 and had him help me time them. 3-5 minutes apart and lasting 30 seconds to a minute. I finally decided this was real at about 4 and called my mom to let her know. She got to our house to watch the girls and we left at about 4:40--I was in no HUGE rush to get to the hospital, thinking we had quite a bit more time left. We got there at 5 and the lady at the desk asked if we needed to rush back and have someone meet us there right away, or if we could wait until someone got back to Triage and then head back. I decided to wait and let Zach park and come back. From 5:00-5:10, I had at least 4 contractions. The lady at the desk told me that as soon as Zach got back, we needed to head in. We checked into Triage at 5:15, 5 cm and 90% effaced. I was "probably going to be admitted." I told Zach that if I wasn't, I'd like to punch someone. This. Was. Real. Thankfully, I was admitted and got to my room about 6. I was 9 cm and 100% effaced. I said I didn't think it was quite time yet, but was starting to feel some pressure. They called in Dr. Hutchison, who was already at the hospital, and she came over 6:15-6:20 am. They got the station all ready and we waited. We chatted in between contractions. She asked if I'd like her to break my waters, and I declined... unless of course she had somewhere else to be. I'd rather her break them and be there than miss it. HA. She said she was fine and we kept visiting. Finally, right about 7:20 or just before I knew it was time to push.<br />
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Natalie Grace Jones arrived on February 07, 2015 at 7:24 a.m. <br />
7 lb. 8 oz. ~ 19"<br />
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She is healthy and beautiful and the girls absolutely LOVE her.<br />
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Although we have had a few nights of less comfortable sleep, and just plain less sleep, this girl is the best addition to our family that I could have received. I mean just look at her a few more times.<br />
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Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-53721065948083230302015-02-19T16:27:00.000-08:002015-02-26T13:19:41.842-08:00Kara: The Middle Little JoyKara is such a sweet heart. I think at this point, I'm figuring out that her primary love language is words of affirmation. She's at the age that her vocabulary is just soaring. (23 months) She says many many more things than these few, but these are some of our favorites. She also does a few hilarious things as well.<br />
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1) Sad: This is a HUGE thing for her. She picks up on emotions so easily. When someone is sad, she immediately says so. With a sweet concerned face, "Sad." Usually she goes over to comfort them at that point. She wants to make all bad things good.<br />
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2) Mimicking big sister. She loves to do very similar things as Kaylee. She'll often add her own little twist to it, but looks up to her big sis so much. The admiration she has for Kaylee is so sweet to watch. This has only grown since becoming a big sister.<br />
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3) The way she says, "Okay." She gets a deeper voice than she has for pretty much anything else she says.<br />
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4) She's usually pretty compliant and does what she's asked, but when she's not--boy, is she STUBBORN! She looks over to the side out of the corner of her eyes and absolutely refuses to make eye contact with anyone. <br />
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5) "Thank you," and "You're welcome" are very common phrases in her vocabulary. She is super consistent in using them. "Ank you!" "You're wel'm!" So. Stinkin'. Cute. <br />
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6) She is a silly goofball with tons of energy. Spinning around until she's dizzy. Running back and forth from the couch to the kitchen trash can. Trying to jump as high as she can (2 inches off the ground). <br />
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7) Stickers. Need I say more? Stickers on walls, blankets, desks, tables, shirts, shoes, arms, faces... oh and paper sometimes.<br />
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8) "YAY!" She is not at all shy about hiding the fact that she is excited about something. "YAY, yay, yay, YAY!"<br />
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9) Same thing with when she thinks something is fun. "Fun!"<br />
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10) 1...2....5...10...11...9 I love her counting skills<br />
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11) She loves to bang things. "Bammer," and "hammer," are some words we hear quite often.<br />
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12) Walking in other people's shoes. Yes. All kids love doing this. Kara makes a habit of it extremely regularly. Daddy's, Mommy's, Kaylee's. Tennis shoes, work shoes, flats, heals, flip-flops. Around the house, in the car, at other's houses. <br />
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14) "It's fine." If she wants it, she makes sure to let us know it's fine. <br />
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15) I do it.<br />
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17) I.... Luh.... YOUUUUU!<br />
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18) "Dear Jesus...Amen."<br />
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19) "Nat!" I love that she gets excited about her little sister.<br />
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20) The hug tackle. She loves to give Kaylee hug tackles. This is where she runs up and hugs Kaylee so tightly, that they both end up crashing to the ground.<br />
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<br />Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-81398649365623377112015-02-18T16:26:00.000-08:002015-02-20T09:27:31.957-08:00Dear Mom Who Is Trying to Do What's Best for Her Kids<div class="tr_bq">
I'm not really an "open letter" writer. I'm a mom. I happened to give a little talk at a friend's shower for her little girl a few months back, and I can't help but keep thinking these things over and over again with all the debates that I see flying around on social media and in the blogosphere. So, I share the letter that I wrote and read at my friend's shower with you, with a few minor changes. </div>
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<b>Dear Mom Who Is Trying to Do What's Best for Her Kids, </b><br />
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As I'm sure you've already figured out, EVERYONE seems to know how to mother the best way and they are sure to share all of their mommy wisdom with you. As moms in our culture, we have every opportunity to compare ourselves with every other mom out there. We are constantly assessing various factors that our society has deemed the end-all-be-all of what makes you a good mom.<br />
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Will you have a medicated birth or natural? Vaginal or C-section? At the hospital, birth center or home? Will a Doula be present? Be sure to make it be an intimate moment with your husband, but take lots of pictures and tell all the nitty-gritty in your birth story. <br />
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Are breastfeeding or bottle feeding? On demand or on a regimented schedule? Don't let your baby control you, but if you make baby wait on your time you'll be starving her and causing her life-long emotional damage.<br />
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Do you wear your baby? If not you should. But only in certain baby wearers because otherwise your baby will have spinal and hip issues for the rest of her life. But then again, maybe you shouldn't wear your baby at all because they will become too attached to you and have worse separation anxiety when they are older. You should be passing your baby around to a wide variety of people so they get used to many different faces.<br />
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Do you co-sleep with your baby or do you have him in his own crib? Do you let him cry it out or barely make a peep before attending to him? Realize that the choices you make will either make him feel neglected or will make him too reliant on you and he won't learn to self-soothe. <br />
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Pacifier or no pacifier. Keep in mind dental issues later on. Oh, but it will help soothe her if mom isn't there right this second. But, again, she won't learn to self-soothe. <br />
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To vaccinate or not to vaccinate? No matter what you choose, you will be killing your child and those children around you. <br />
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Organic food or conventional?<br />
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Preschool or not?<br />
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Home school? Public school? Charter school? Private school? Liberal Arts, Classical or Montessori?<br />
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I could go on and on about the "big issues" that swarm parents and what makes you good parents in our culture today.<br />
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If you're anything like me, you'll see your friends and family doing things one way, and others another way. You'll think back on your own childhood and how your parents did things--some you loved, some maybe not so much. And of course, you can get all these lovely facts {read: opinions} from professional bloggers {read: bloggers made popular by our culture and those on every side of every issue} easily on a daily basis... whether you are searching or not.<br />
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I want to encourage you by saying, "Don't let these things because the 'big things'." Sure, it's important to make <i>good, informed</i> decisions about ALL of these issues, but don't let your decisions in these areas define you as being "good" or "bad" parents. As soon as you open the door to letting these things define you, you allow Satan to come in and let these things rob you of the JOY of raising your child into the man or woman of God that He created your child to be.<br />
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Instead, remember the wisdom found in Ephesians 6:4.<br />
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"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the of the Lord."</blockquote>
Keep your eyes on Jesus; train your kids up in the instruction of the Lord. That is the most important responsibility that you have as a parent. <i>That</i> is the big issue. <br />
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You'll notice that the verse also calls you as parents to not provoke your children to anger. I've found this to be much more relevant than I thought it would be. I know when my heart isn't in the right place, and I respond to my girls in a poor way (no matter the instance), it triggers anger and frustration from them. [Side note: sometimes you can be training them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord with a good heart attitude, and your kids will <i>still</i> respond in anger and frustration because of their sinful heart. That's another issue. That being said...]<br />
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I've found that more and more over the past couple of years it, is is crucial for me to keep the fruit of the Spirit at the forefront of my mind. <br />
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"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law." -Galatians 5:22-23</blockquote>
I've heard these so many times, and recited these verses so many times, that they started to become one of those verses that I "heard" without really hearing. Within the past year or so, I came across Max Lucado's expansion on these verses (Chapter 11 of <i>When God Whispers Your, </i>Thomas Nelson, 1994) and I love it.<br />
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IT’S QUIET. It’s early. My coffee is hot. The sky is still black. The world is still asleep. The day is coming.<br />
In a few moments the day will arrive. It will roar down the track with the rising of the sun. The stillness of the dawn will be exchanged for the noise of the day. The calm of solitude will be replaced by the pounding pace of the human race. The refuge of the early morning will be invaded by decisions to be made and deadlines to be met.<br />
For the next twelve hours I will be exposed to the day’s demands. It is now that I must make a choice. Because of Calvary, I’m free to choose. And so I choose.<br />
I choose love . . .<br />
No occasion justifies hatred; no injustice warrants bitterness. I choose love. Today I will love God and what God loves.<br />
I choose joy . . .<br />
I will invite my God to be the God of circumstance. I will refuse the temptation to be cynical . . . the tool of the lazy thinker. I will refuse to see people as anything less than human beings, created by God. I will refuse to see any problem as anything less than an opportunity to see God.<br />
I choose peace . . .<br />
I will live forgiven. I will forgive so that I may live.<br />
I choose patience . . .<br />
I will overlook the inconveniences of the world. Instead of cursing the one who takes my place, I’ll invite him to do so. Rather than complain that the wait is too long, I will thank God for a moment to pray. Instead of clinching my fist at new assignments, I will face them with joy and courage.<br />
I choose kindness . . .<br />
I will be kind to the poor, for they are alone. Kind to the rich, for they are afraid. And kind to the unkind, for such is how God has treated me.<br />
I choose goodness . . .<br />
I will go without a dollar before I take a dishonest one. I will be overlooked before I will boast. I will confess before I will accuse. I choose goodness.<br />
I choose faithfulness . . .<br />
Today I will keep my promises. My debtors will not regret their trust. My associates will not question my word. My wife will not question my love. And my children will never fear that their father will not come home.<br />
I choose gentleness . . .<br />
Nothing is won by force. I choose to be gentle. If I raise my voice may it be only in praise. If I clench my fist, may it be only in prayer. If I make a demand, may it be only of myself.<br />
I choose self-control . . .<br />
I am a spiritual being. After this body is dead, my spirit will soar. I refuse to let what will rot, rule the eternal. I choose self-control. I will be drunk only by joy. I will be impassioned only by my faith. I will be influenced only by God. I will be taught only by Christ. I choose self-control.<br />
Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. To these I commit my day. If I succeed, I will give thanks.<br />
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Isn't that such a beautiful picture of what it looks like to truly exhibit the fruit of the Spirit? I love that it reminds me that I cannot live a life like this without Christ. On days that I'm a "good mom", I can give the glory and thanks to Him. I've chosen to be an obedient child of God and I've done what He calls me to do through His strength. I also love that it reminds me that I <i>will </i>fail and I have full access to His grace. On days when I feel like the worst mom in the world, I can still, at the end of the day, rest. And then begins a new day. </div>
Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-21859947627698295212013-05-03T15:28:00.000-07:002013-05-03T15:28:00.822-07:00Before I Became A Mom<br />
Before I became a mom, I typically went to the grocery store alone. Now, I usually have at least 1 "helper" with me.<br />
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Before I became a mom, I was able to solve every other mom's problems, whether it be discipline issues, time management issues, or anything else. Now, I feel like I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing most of the time. </div>
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Before I became a mom, I would see a mom chasing her kid down the isle at the Target and think she didn't have it together. Now, I hope others have sympathy when I AM that mom.</div>
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Before I became a mom, I could choose whether or not "dress up" and wear makeup or decide to go with the more natural, sporty girl look. Now, I feel like I have it pretty together if I'm dressed and out the door within 10 minutes (after) I said I was going to leave... or sometimes even within 10 minutes of when I said I would be there. </div>
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Before I became a mom, if I felt something wet running down my shirt it was me clumsily spilling my drink. Now, I experience that wet feeling at least once a day... only now it's spit up. </div>
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Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-10247806537036350882013-04-15T21:03:00.000-07:002013-04-15T21:15:40.557-07:00When Life gets Messy... Clean up the CrumbsJust a crumb. Just a couple more. What's a few more that fall on the floor? I'll clean them up later. Later when I don't have other distractions. <br />
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The last couple of weeks of my pregnancy I got "tired". Really this tiredness was just laziness masked as being tired. Rather than taking a few seconds--maybe a couple of minutes--to sweep up the crumbs, I wanted to get upstairs and check Facebook, email, blogs. I lost discipline in my life. </div>
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It got to the point that I put off this simple task because Kaylee was a distraction. If I made the piles of crumbs, she would just play in the mess. "It would be better to just leave them all over the floor." The thoughts of a lazy, muddled-minded mommy. I'll clean them up later. </div>
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As I was cleaning up the literal crumbs, I was thinking about how so often I tend to allow "little distractions" to get in the way of cleaning up my spiritual life. I know that I really need to do certain things. Not only do I need to do them, but wouldn't my life be so much better if I wasn't stepping on "crumbs" all day? We need to actively put aside our distractions so that we can stop avoiding the crumbs. We need to fully enter into His presence. When we avoid the crumbs for so long, life becomes increasingly messy. However, if we spend time being diligent every single day, the crumbs won't pile up. We sweep our sins to the feet of the Father. He nailed them to the cross with Jesus. We become cleaner. He makes us clean. </div>
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Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-74187538267482636792013-04-12T21:41:00.005-07:002013-04-15T21:15:51.454-07:00Peanut Butter and SunshineI'm so pleased to be launching my blog! Peanut Butter and Sunshine is a place for moms, food lovers, homemakers, and crafters to all gather to find inspiration.<br />
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<b>Peanut Butter:</b> I have 2 daughters. My older daughter (17 months) is a bit of a picky eater. One thing that I can USUALLY count on her eating is a peanut butter sandwich. I can also count on her getting pretty messy and sticky at any and every meal. Peanut butter is also messy and sticky. Plus I just like it.</div>
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<b>Sunshine:</b> I live in sunny southern AZ! I thoroughly love the sun and the warmth that permeates throughout my entire body in the middle of summer. Growing up I loved soaking up every ounce of sunshine that I could. My 17 month old also LOVES being outside in the sun. Sunshine makes life happier. It helps turn a dreary and rough day into something so much brighter. Metaphorically speaking, "sunshine" represents Christ in my life. <br />
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"In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. Al things were made through him, and without him was not any thing made that was made. <i>In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.</i>" </div>
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Please join me in the journey of raising our children, sticky fingers and all, in a Christ-like manner. Let's make our houses homey by becoming better homemakers and by cooking good, wholesome food. And let's have fun doing it, too!</div>
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Cassiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01771161153637632206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4704942359021459379.post-15622984161949950702013-03-12T07:00:00.000-07:002015-01-13T20:30:02.384-08:00Kaylee: The Little that's a BIG JOY in my life.<h3>
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{This post is from a LONG time ago. But I'm posting because I don't ever want to forget this little girl. She's changing so much. She's now my little momma-mini-me. A 3-year-old full of spunk, attitude, vigor, love for life and all things "fair"--or at least what is fair in her mind. Flashback to little 16-month-old Kaylee is fun.}<br />
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My little Kaylee-Bug is such a sweetie pie. I know it's only natural for parents to think that their children are truly the best ever, but with Kaylee it really is true. {haha} She's such a little smartie pants. Some of my favorite things that she does right now:</div>
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1) Her breathy little, "Hi," that she gives while she waves. She waves and/or says hi to almost everyone that she sees. Sometimes, when she wants someone's attention really badly, she ends up sounding more and more desperate. </div>
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2) Speaking of her wave, I love her wave. Sometimes she just waves her fingers, and keeps them facing towards herself. Other times she does a stiff little wave of her palm facing out towards the receiving person. </div>
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3) Shaking her head, "No." Sometimes she has a serious face, sometimes a more goofy face, but her head shake is always very emphatic. She usually accompanies this with saying, "No." It used to sound like, "Doh," but it has recently transitioned to a clear, "No."<br />
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4) Nodding, "Yes." She just recently learned how to do this. It started out with her entire torso rocking back and forth. Finally one day she mastered the up and down head motion required for a proper nod. This is accompanied by the cutest little, "Yeah," ever. She says it with her voice inflection going up at the end. SO. STINKIN'. CUTE!</div>
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5) "Ohhhh..." She says this in 2 very distinct and different ways. </div>
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<li>"Ohhhh..." with her head leaning on something or someone, like, "I'm so cute."</li>
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<li>"Ohhhh..." with a very serious and concerned look on her face, sounding like she's very disappointed. This is sometimes given along with her shake of the head. It's almost always in response of something being dropped, whether by her or someone else. </li>
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6) Her "hot response". When something is said to be hot, she holds out her hand and blows, usually down on her tray. Sometimes it's an actually little blow, sometimes it's more of a "hhhhhha". </div>
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7) Her "cold response". She shakes her head and says, "o-ooo-ooo-ooo." It looks and sounds like she is saying, "No," but she is indeed saying that something is cold. She does this because I once said something was cold and followed it with a pretend shiver saying, "Brrr-rrr-rrr." </div>
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8) Oh Boy! She doesn't say, "Oh boy!" But any time someone says it she puts her hands up on either side of her head. Once again, at some point I exclaimed, "Oh Boy!" while I put my hands on my head. She thought it was hilarious and now does it all the time. Sometimes she wants to do it as a game so she'll put her hands up on her head and bring it back down and put them up and bring them back down until we give in and finally say, "Oh boy!" </div>
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9) One! Right at 13 months, she mastered the one figer up in the air, proudly saying that she was 1! Many times this will also be her response when asked, "How are you?" 1! :o)</div>
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10) So Big! This is not unique to Kaylee-bug. What is unique is somehow, numbers 8, 9, and 10 ended up being grouped together in her mind. So many times she will give the signs in succession of one another.</div>
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11) Please. She signs "please" by scratching her chest close to her shoulder. </div>
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12) How is this one so far down in my list??? One of my favorites. "K." Not, "Kay." Just the phonetic K sound. This means none other than, "I want to eat." If she is SUPER hungry, she's say," K. K. K. K." Our theory of how that came to be is that most of her preferred foods have some sort of K sound in them. Brea<b>K</b>fast. (This was the one I noticed it on first. I asked if she would like breakfast and her response was, "K.") <b>C</b>ottage cheese. <b>C</b>ra<b>ck</b>ers. <b>C</b>oo<b>k</b>ies. Like I said, it's just a theory, but it makes the most sense to us. Nonetheless, we've never heard any other kid use that sound and associate it with eating. </div>
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13) "Where?" Whenever we ask where anything is, her face automatically gets a look of concern or confusion and her hand goes out to the side, asking, "where?" She doesn't say anything. However, you can tell by the look on her face how much she really wants to know. That, and the fact that if she is really curious or concerned both hands will shoot out asking "where?"</div>
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14) "Da." She loves her daddy. Pictures of Da. The office room, where Da works on school. The soccer ball that Da plays with. The side of the bed that Da sleeps on. During the day she is constantly pointing out things she connects with her daddy. Love. It. Of course I love, "Momomomom," too. (Mom). </div>
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15) Giving and blowing kisses. She gives kisses so gently, and usually say, "ahhh," at the same time. For blowing kisses she just holds her hand up to her mouth and blows on it. <br />
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16) Whenever we ask her if she understands something she says, "No." VERY. CLEARLY. "Do you understand?" "NO." This can follow anything from, "We don't touch that, do you understand?" to, "We're going to go to the zoo today. Do you understand?" (She loves the Zoo.) She always answers no. We think it might be that she thinks we're asking her if she "stands". We tell her not to stand in the bathtub, so she might think we're saying something about that?? I don't know for sure. </div>
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17) She just started saying. "Moe," meaning more. This, in her mind, rhymes with "bow" as in hair bow. I guess she's somewhat right. :)<br />
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18) "Bubbo." She LOVES going outside to blow bubbles.<br />
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19) A recent anecdote: Kaylee, pointing at the fridge, says, "Chee? Yeah. Chee? Yeah. Chee? Yeah." I replied, "Would you like some cream cheese?" "YEAH!" accompanied by a BIG head nod.<br />
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20) Anatomy: Eye (said VERY clearly). Nose (pronounced "no"). Ear (pronounced "ee"). Mouth (pronounced mow, as in mouse).</div>
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She is my favorite 16-month-old ever. Okay, I guess that's enough <strike>bragging</strike> describing for now. Please share a unique, fun thing that your kiddos do at this stage in life! It's so much fun to see the creative minds of little ones. </div>
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